The thoughts of a woman trying to live simply yet abundantly, contentedly yet expectantly, wisely yet adventurously... all for His glory.


walking to Ghana

Up until recently, we've been fairly restricted regarding when and where we could get off ship (if we could get off at all) due to the potential for civil unrest after the elections. 

So when I run into my Danish friend Jens last Saturday and he asks if I want to come with him and his "friend" James (Jens met James on a street corner in Lomé the other day), I don't hesitate. I throw on some walking shoes, fill up my water bottle, and we're off.

Jens is the kind of person that loves to interact with people-- all people, all the time. So it wasn't surprising that he'd made friends with James while out wandering in Lomé, or that he'd agreed to meet James for another day of exploring in town. Being from Ghana, James speaks English (helpful for Jens and I) but he also speaks Ewe, the most common local language (also very helpful, seeing as I speak a little French but no Ewe). 

I shake hands with James, who promptly goes into raptures, unaccountably pleased that Jens has "finally" found a good woman to settle down with. It's no good trying to explain friendship and singleness to a West African; these are almost as strange to them as my white skin. So I simply wink at Jens while James eloquently wishes us long life and prosperity. 

We start off by taking a taxi into town (last year in Benin we were close enough to walk to town; this year it would take a good 45 minutes to walk to town). I am so thankful that taxis are the norm here rather than the zemidjans of Benin. To own a taxi you must pass a driver's test (I think) and you must be registered. To own a zemi in Benin you need... nothing at all. In fact, you can have cataracts in both eyes and still offer yourself as transportation for hire (true story-- one of my friends last year took a ride with a partially-blind zemi driver). 

Jens, James and I pile out of the taxi somewhere in town and start walking. I'm not sure what exactly James has in mind. We pass a large, modern building with multiple signs proclaiming "Musée National" and decide to go see this National Museum of Togo. As it turns out, the national museum consists of a small, hot room filled with various clay pots, smoking pipes, statues, and farming implements. Go down several steps into the basement and you can see pictures of all the various governors of Togo, which was ruled at various times by the Germans, the English, and most recently the French before someone finally decided the Togolese could run their own country. Needless to say, I hadn't exactly expected a Louvre-caliber museum, but it was still a little... well, African (not that I mind).

After our quick tour of the museum, James decides that we should see the border (Lomé is less than 30 minutes from the Ghanaian border, I believe). After another short taxi ride we again start walking, enjoying the sights and tolerating the smells. In between chatting with James, Jens and I practice my Norwegian. Danish is similar enough that he understands me perfectly, although I struggle to pick out his words sometimes as they are full of long, drawled vowels. As we're walking we notice that the street ahead of us abruptly ends, barbed wire fencing draped as far as the eye can see. On the other side of that fence is Ghana, which looks remarkably similar to Togo as far as I can tell. Every now and then there's large gaps cut in the fence and we watch as people carry fuel and other goods across the border (easier than going through the checkpoint, James tells us). There are weapons-toting guards lounging around on the Togolese side but they don't interfere with the border crossings happening in broad daylight. 

(Togo on the left side of the fence, Ghana on the right, with an illegal gate cut into the wire fencing.)

The kids here in Togo are a little shy, and I find that I miss the wildly exuberant shouts and antics of the kids in Benin. The few kids who do venture a shy wave and softly call out "yovo, yovo" ("white person, white person"), Jens gently teases by calling back "ameyibo" which according to James means "black person" in Ewe. We get shouts of laughter and good-natured chatter from the mamas at this, and James interprets for us that the mamas are pleased that "this yovo, he speaks our language!"

We follow the fence south, towards the beach, until we come to a traffic jam of people and vehicles headed to and from Ghana. James tells us that once you pass under the black star you are in Ghana; I think I could have deduced that much from the "welcome to Ghana" sign just underneath the black star. I think about waving at Ghana, but decide that I would rather not attract any additional attention to myself. I get enough attention as it is being a white woman in an African country. 

Now that we've seen the border, James suggests that we go to the big market. We flag down another taxi which deposits us at one of the entrances of the big market where you can buy nearly anything you want-- hair pieces, half a butchered chicken (or a whole live one), vegetables, antibiotics, TV's, fabric, "official" soccer jerseys, and "Dolce & Gabbana" sunglasses. Shopping in the market is very nearly the opposite of shopping at home. Here in West Africa, the tedious burden of actually having to look for what you need has been eradicated; instead, vendors clamor to show you their wares. Surely you are in need of a belt, my sister! You already have one? But surely two are better than one! And these are very good quality belts, my dear. I give you good price, ok?

We wander the market, occasionally running into other yovos from the ship. Not at all subtly, vendors admire Jens' beard (his beard would make an Amish man proud). Several men good-naturedly call him Osama. Jens laughs and somehow makes more friends even as he explains through pantomime that he is not Muslim; he just likes to have a beard. James explains that only Muslim men grow long beards here in Togo, but Jens isn't bothered by that one bit. Just a way to start a conversation, he tells me. And I can't help but agree because oddly enough he's managed to have several conversations about faith with the people we've met.

At this point James suggests that we head back into town to check out a "program" of some sort. In West Africa, "program" is a vague way of saying "something will be happening." I have had just the right amount of wandering and randomness for today, so I say my goodbyes to James and Jens in order to join up with some other Mercy Shippers out shopping at the market. A little womanly bartering and fabric-shopping seems perfect for the rest of the afternoon.

All in all I spend 6 hours of the day walking, letting the dust of the roads slowly sink into my pores and thinking that I can't quite account for the way things are so familiarly unfamiliar. I'm not necessarily at home here, but I've spent enough time in West Africa now to be able to really enjoy it. 

I think I enjoy most of all the strange incongruities that arise here: I've just spent the day wandering around a town in Togo with a Danish carpenter and a Ghanaian fisherman.  


language deeper than words

Thank you for your patience with me, friends! There's so much to write about at the beginning of the outreach here in Togo that I've not known where to start.

The first weekend that the wards opened I worked as a charge nurse, a slightly different role here on the ship than being a charge nurse at home. But I love being back on the wards with patients; things happen routinely here that would never in a million years happen in a hospital at home.

Just one example of "only in Africa."
 Photo taken last year in Benin.

Any of the nurses here could write a book on the myriad ways that nursing on board is different than nursing at home. I have just one small example for you... nothing spectacular, but it's just one of the reasons I love being here.

The first weekend that the wards were open I worked as a charge nurse in our orthopedic ward. As usual, the orthopedic surgeons came for their morning rounds to see each patient and discuss the plan for the day. We ended by seeing two little boys that were scheduled for surgery the next day. One boy was severely bow-legged, rather like this:  < > . The other boy had the opposite problem, and his knees met each other in the middle, rather like this:  )( . Interestingly enough, both problems are corrected by the same surgery where an angular wedge of bone is removed allowing the bones to be straightened out.

The surgeons proceeded to talk to the boys' mothers, trying to make sure that everyone understood the surgery. After some confusion over drawings and pictures, finally one of the surgeons sat down next to the patient in the bed and hitched his scrubs up to bare his knees. The other surgeon whipped out a pen and began to draw on the first surgeon's leg and knees, much to the amusement of the boys and their mothers. This is where we'll cut the bone; this is how the bones will be reset to straighten the legs; this is where we'll place the pins: all a flurry of penstrokes on the knee and shin of a surgeon. I had to bite my lip to keep from laughing the entire time, for despite the best efforts of the surgeons the mothers looked increasingly confused. And when all was said and done, one surgeon walked out of the wards with his leg covered in geometrical blue designs showing bones, incisions, and wedges.

It almost didn't matter that the mothers didn't understand the surgery, because what matters most around here is relationship and simply being present in the lives of others. There is a language deeper than words, and in that language, the mamas heard we are here, and we are with you. We will take care of your boys. And when we bring them back to you after surgery and they have time to heal, your boys will be able to walk normally, without turning sideways to go through doors and without kneecaps rubbing together. We are here, and we are with you. 

I need your suggestions at the moment to help me know what to blog about! Anything you're just unbearably curious about? Let me know in the comments or via email and I may use your question(s) as a jumping-off point for future blog posts.

(In other news, please continue to pray for the Togolese people. As I understand it, the election results preliminarily pointed to the re-election of the current president. The people of Lome have held some rallies and marches over the last weeks, and as a precaution we are avoiding certain parts of town where the opposition support is prevalent. But in the hospital, surgeries continue and ship life continues relatively unchanged.)